Soft Skills
Posted: Sat Sep 28, 2013 9:04 pm
In the college setting where I teach the state and administration is constantly telling us that we need to focus on the "soft skills" of our college students. These are things like:
Getting to meetings on time
Wearing appropriate clothing
Hygiene
How to act in a public seeting vs. Private Setting
Communication Skills
Work ethic
etc..
It's basically all the things that your mother and father should have ingrained in you growing up...
Apparently it's now our job to train them..
In any case I'd like to suggest a few soft skills that a certain few of our fans learn in the meantime.
#1: Communication Skills: No one likes losing, but blaring profanities doesn't make the matter any better. Especially when young children are around. Employers (and myself as a parent) could care less if you use such language at home or amongst friends, but please refrain in public.
I have never seen such language used in such a way at a game... walking back from the stands... and even waiting outside of Mast General... Really kids??? Really?
#2: Hygiene: The guy that sat behind me today was a really nice guy (not the usual seat holders). But we were absolutely disgusted to see that he was dipping and then SPITTING ON THE GROUND directly behind us. First the smell is disgusting, but worst of all the pile got so gooey it was starting to ooze down near our seats.
Learn where you are and realize that other people might now appreciate your spittle splatting on their backsides. Would your mother be proud of what you're doing? Would you spit on your kitchen floor during dinner? Common sense folks!
#3: Public Behavior: If you are going to get knock-down-stupid drunk do not climb up and down the steep steps in 205.. or any section in KB. We had a guy "fall/stumble" down the stairs near us, kick a gal in the back of the head on the way down and then take the legs out from under a lady going down the stairs and cause her to drop her baby that she was holding.
I repeat.. She dropped the baby she was holding.
I am perfectly okay with drinking at a football game. But if you can't stand up straight there is something seriously wrong. You're lucky you ran away because if it had been my wife/child I would be typing this from jail right now.
The baby ended up being fine but the poor gal behind us and the mother especially is going to wake up awfully sore tomorrow.
Getting to meetings on time
Wearing appropriate clothing
Hygiene
How to act in a public seeting vs. Private Setting
Communication Skills
Work ethic
etc..
It's basically all the things that your mother and father should have ingrained in you growing up...
Apparently it's now our job to train them..
In any case I'd like to suggest a few soft skills that a certain few of our fans learn in the meantime.
#1: Communication Skills: No one likes losing, but blaring profanities doesn't make the matter any better. Especially when young children are around. Employers (and myself as a parent) could care less if you use such language at home or amongst friends, but please refrain in public.
I have never seen such language used in such a way at a game... walking back from the stands... and even waiting outside of Mast General... Really kids??? Really?
#2: Hygiene: The guy that sat behind me today was a really nice guy (not the usual seat holders). But we were absolutely disgusted to see that he was dipping and then SPITTING ON THE GROUND directly behind us. First the smell is disgusting, but worst of all the pile got so gooey it was starting to ooze down near our seats.
Learn where you are and realize that other people might now appreciate your spittle splatting on their backsides. Would your mother be proud of what you're doing? Would you spit on your kitchen floor during dinner? Common sense folks!
#3: Public Behavior: If you are going to get knock-down-stupid drunk do not climb up and down the steep steps in 205.. or any section in KB. We had a guy "fall/stumble" down the stairs near us, kick a gal in the back of the head on the way down and then take the legs out from under a lady going down the stairs and cause her to drop her baby that she was holding.
I repeat.. She dropped the baby she was holding.
I am perfectly okay with drinking at a football game. But if you can't stand up straight there is something seriously wrong. You're lucky you ran away because if it had been my wife/child I would be typing this from jail right now.
The baby ended up being fine but the poor gal behind us and the mother especially is going to wake up awfully sore tomorrow.